“He’s Gone … Am I Going to Be Okay?”
A Financial Therapist’s Guide to Life After Loss
The question asked by millions of divorced and widowed women everywhere is answered with a resounding “YES” by acclaimed financial consultant Beverly Tobocman in her new book, “Now That He’s Gone: a financial therapist’s guide to life after loss.” Written to inspire and comfort “suddenly single” women everywhere, “Now That He’s Gone” retells amazing stories of women who built emotional and financial security after losing their man and provides a straightforward blueprint for achieving inner peace and rebuilding life as a single. Peppered with light illustrations to match its compassionate, uplifting tone, “Now That He’s Gone” is an effective life coaching tool for any woman who has experienced a loss.
Read and discover…
…the three questions about money you must answer after you experience the loss of a partner.
…the essential question for continuing life in a state of financial security.
… how to determine your chances for financial success after the loss of your partner.
… tips on how to handle your new “social status” as a single.
… the amazing secret that has helped hundreds of women nourish themselves for the solo journey ahead!
… how to shift your attitude from one of loss to one of challenge and opportunity.
… how to reconnect with others without losing yourself!
…THE most essential and powerful tool for emotionally recovering from your loss.
… how to celebrate your life despite its circumstances.
… the magic formula for success in your new life…and how to apply it!
… how to shift your intentions into positive actions that will propel your life forward!
… how to create your personal definition of success…then make it happen!
… how to build a support team to keep you emotionally and financially secure during your transitional years.
… the question YOU must answer to live happily ever after.
… the seven important things to consider before you give your money to a financial advisor.
Find the answers in “Now That He’s Gone”.
Here’s what people are saying about “Now That He’s Gone”
“I read this on recommendation from a mutual friend. Ms. Tobocman has written a delightful book on self-reliance directed towards women who have found themselves unexpectedly alone. I was expecting a book of dry financial advice. What I got was an eminently readable missive of uplifting anecdotes that bring inspiration to people from all walks of life. You needn’t be a woman, widowed or divorced to glean real world wisdom from Ms. Tobocman’s words.”
“Beverly did a great job on addressing the emotional as well as the financial implications after a loss. Her book would be of value for everyone experiencing any kind of loss and looking to pick up the pieces…”
– Terrie Q. Sayre “Weekends with Terrie Q. Sayre” 770am KKOB Albuquerque NM
Beverly is a voice of certainty and calm for any woman going through a life-changing time. She’s an advisor with the expertise to back it up and who can sincerely offer a shoulder to cry on. Not many financial advisors can offer both.
– Victoria Babu, News Director, KTRS Big550AM
“Now that he’s gone is a must-read for any woman who has lost her husbad, whether as a widow, or through divorce. As someone whose mom and dad are in the middle of a divorce right now, I feel this book will be a life-saver for my mom. In fact, I’ll be sending her a copy of this book today. Many thanks to Beverly Tobocman for writing such an important book that will surely serve as a beacon of hope for many women coping with the loss of their husband.”
–Hal Elrod, bestselling author of Taking Life Head On! (The Hal Elrod Story)
“A much needed book. It is user-friendly and helpful. A timely book for many women babyboomers.”
– Nancy Kilgore, MS, National Trainer & Author on Women’s Issues
“Now That He’s Gone: A Financial Therapist’s Guide to Life After Loss” speaks to those women who have lost their life partner and face the challenges of being alone for the first time in their lives. These are stories of hope, strength and inspiration. This book offers good sound advice plus action steps for this next stage of life. It is a great read for suddenly single women!”
– Mona Shane, Renowned Psychologist specializing in grief and loss relating to health, marriage, career and loved ones
“Beverly Tobocman’s Book is an exciting, emotional journey that takes the reader through the intense feelings of fear and desperation that a woman feels after losing her husband to the pinnacle of inner peace that can be achieved as she rebuilds her life as a single. Beverly creates an entertaining, anecdotal quick read that is chock full of sound advice and essential life lessons. I highly recommend this life transforming book to any mother, daughter, sister or friend who unexpectedly finds herself braving life alone.”
– Ann Doyle, leadership coach & president, Ann Doyle Strategies
“Thank you, Beverly, for providing suddenly single women with a straightforward blueprint for healing their soul, regaining social confidence and rebuilding their lives! ‘Now That He’s Gone’ percolates with comfort and support. Beverly shares her own story of recovery and reentry into single life as well as those of her clients with a sense of humor framed by light, humorous cartoons. “Now That He’s Gone” brings home an unwavering message of hope that makes it a must read for the newly divorced or widowed.”
– Holly Stiel, award winning author and national spokesperson for corporate service worldwide
“….should be required reading for any woman who has lost their man. Beverly compassionately guides women to their new single life with confidence, abundance, and joie de vivre!”
– Randi Paige, west coast television producer, Judge Joe Brown
“Throughout our business and friendship for over 25 years you have always had incredible insight and a great passion no matter what you do. You taught me that if you do what you love the money will follow. It has been great to see how many different ways that belief will work for so many different people. Congrats on the new book- it will guide and help many.”
– Tony Rigato
“Love your new blog and great job on the book. I think you’ve hit on a subject that really needed more exposure. This book is going to be great help for a lot of women and I know that you are an expert on personal finance and are the right person to offer this kind of advice. This thing is sure to be a hit!”
– Ken Mascia- President, Prime Capital Mortgage
“…you have captured most of the problems that are faced by both men and women who suffer the losses you describe. Your stories on pulling themselves up and getting on with their lives would help those in need.”
– Robert Karbal
